We all used to use punishment a lot in different situation. The "we" I mention here included your mommy and I of course. Your mommy will punishment you on stuff that you didn't do or you violated some rules. For example, if you didn't do your Chinese homework or didn't practice piano, she would penalize you not to watch TV for a certain amount of time.
Ever since she took the courses in ESP, she realized punishment is not the correct form to teach you on stuff you didn't do. Instead, she realized teaching you the consequences is more important. You will learn directly from the situation itself. Punishment does not make you understand the direct relation, i.e. You are punished to not allow to watch TV for not doing your homework. Your mommy will start teaching you the consequences of every decision you'll make. What do you base it on when you make a decision? What is the consequence of making that decision?
As realized, she told you she would not punishment you anymore. You seem to welcome this decision quite well. I'm sure you'll learn it in a much healthier way with your mommy's guidance.
As you grow older, your mommy is also wanting to grow intellectually and to have greater wisdom. She will always be your role model.......
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